Optimism And Really Winning From The Bare Bones And The Ground Up

Sometimes, I feel a little down and enviously invoke the name of O.J. Simpson (as a formerly admirable and seemingly great in the past black man, and now a guy “who got away with it”) pessimistically, then I get over it quickly and get good to myself quickly in order to function and live well where I am. With that reality said deeply and personally, I begin this article. Who does not experience even among the best of us pessimistic jags and bumps in the road that they have to get over from the ground up sometimes. It is a part of life and existence, naturally. But those horrible pessimistic lemons have to be made into good optimistic lemonade, even by those with everything against them and seemingly nothing going for them in a positive way (yet).

We have got to be honest with ourselves for starters, that is what I mean by “the bare bones and the ground up” in my title. However hard it is to admit our flaws, pessimism and destructive tendencies. They have to be admitted in order to genuinely solve them and create inner strength and good self-esteem within ourselves. Rationally, to be present fully to ourselves, we must be present and realistic about our flaws and virtues fully. Without those admissions, we are searching in the dark for our light genuinely.

Turn the light on in your room, what do you see unremittingly? Do not flinch, look carefully and take a good or great look at yourself. When you do and do not get afraid, go insane or get weird, those are the beginnings of genuine, unremitted and realistic inner strength and optimism. Faking it until you “make it” does not count either.

Sometimes, it is being a totally, healthy and genuinely normal person with a heart that makes one a superhero if you know what I mean.

Everybody loves the feeling of winning, but so many do not like the feeling of paying fully for it in that way. It is a process, and it is an amazing process that builds character and even hurts sometimes. But, for those who genuinely follow through it is genuinely worth it in every way that really counts.

Ah, the joys and pains of optimism when it is real. Phony optimism is closing your eyes, fearfully proceeding forward and hoping that things do not blow up, mess up or go down wrong, and if you do win, you take the credit, but if it happens wrong, you abandon ship and shift blame like Sean McVay the Los Angeles Rams football coach seems to do on our local news programs in Los Angeles, California when they lose a big game and take all credit when they win those same big games.

I am saying own it all, failure and success and you will get somewhere genuinely, however hard it may seem at times, because it is genuine growth. Realistically, that is all if you are on a path of genuine growth without faking, flinching or fear. Everything else is skipping the issue and missing the point. They say the wages of sin or missing the mark is death. Well, the wages of making it is real life and existence really lived fully without avoidance, that is all. Everything is a choice, really.

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3 Reasons Why Hiring A Fitness Personal Trainer is A Good Idea

There are hundreds and thousands of people around the world that promise themselves that they will live a fitter and healthier lifestyle next year. Reaching your fitness goals is hard enough; how much more if you try doing it alone? Since you need all the help you can get, are fitness personal trainers your best option? If you really want to succeed with your fitness goals this time around, then, yes, fitness personal trainers are a very good idea. And main reason why fitness personal trainers are so great is that they offer benefit after benefit to their trainees. It is only natural that you are interested to learn more about the benefits they can offer. Here, we are going to go through a few of the greatest benefits you will receive from fitness personal trainers. So out of all the great benefits, here are only the top 3.

Personalized program is one of the greatest benefits to hiring fitness personal trainers. The body works differently in each individual, which is why it is never good to follow a ready-made program for everyone to try. You should follow a program that is for your body type and not for the general body types. But with a personalized program created by your fitness personal trainer, you can be sure that it will help you reach your fitness goals. So this wonderful benefit is yours if you hire a fitness personal trainer to be by your side.

Fitness personal trainers provide a reasonable fitness plan and goal. It is never wise to make unreachable and unreasonable fitness goals because, if you cannot fulfill it, then you will be discouraged right away. You try to fulfill those goals in the shortest possible time. But you should know that it takes time to reach those fitness goals. You can run to your fitness personal trainer and ask them to make a long term plan to reach those fitness goals; it does not matter how long it takes as long as you reach there. So if you want to reach your fitness goals, then you should really hire a fitness personal trainer.

Encouragment and support is yet another one of the greatest benefits to hiring fitness personal trainers. There are going to be lows and discouragements in any journey to fitness. You will have so many questions and doubts that could lead you to abandon your fitness goals and live your old, unhealthy lifestyle. You can trust that your fitness personal trainer will always encourage you, always inspire you, always motive you even through these moments of discouragement, thus you will be able to push through and try again. So if you want to reach your fitness goals, then you should really hire a fitness personal trainer.

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